That after dinner sex gone bad, complete with 911 calls and anal tearing aren't "rape" unless the woman is a VIRGIN???

That rape isn't about forcing yourself on another, but being BRUTAL about it? What's next??? It won't be good enough for rapists to beat the woman into unconsciouness but he must also mutititlate her nipples and body so that the Jesus Patrol can safely announce it was indeed a rape.

HOLY SHIT!?!?!?!?

When will the fuckers learn that rape isn't about SEX.

Got that?!?!?!?!

RAPE ISN'T ABOUT SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It isn't a SEX CRIME.

It's a crime of rage. A crime of CONTROL.

If it was about sex, then little old ladies in nursing homes wouldn't be raped. Little girls in black patent leather shoes, would be raped by their Uncles.

It's about some fucked up MAN feeling so insecure and unmanly that he has to go out and exert his power over someone, usually at the threat of a blade, or the threat of "I'll tell".

We still have women, even on these boards that doubt their rape. "Well it wasn't a stranger" or "I wasn't hurt terribly as I've seen on films".

Some man sticks his dick in you without your consent... THAT'S RAPE. Period.

I'm sorry men, I love you guys here - But I think we would have less controversy about rape and more protection and justice if MEN WERE RAPED, IF MEN HAD TO LIVE ON THE ALERT. But that would probably make some men more meaner and the violence against the compassionate sex would increase.

Napoli, may he never have daughters who come home with their panties torn by their boyfriend. Cause that, to him isn't rape. Because this sick fuck sees rape as SEXUAL. That's how fucked his own view of sex is. He actually thinks rape is an act of sex.

I hope to G-d he finds himself one day - standing in an ER waiting room with nothing on but a friend's father's coat wrapped around them. Wondering where you're other shoe was left? Hoping that the little kid wouldn't stare at you. Too dizzy to sit down, too scared to turn around. Just standing while even women tried not to look at you. ... Now we'll have to "hope" that some fuckup will think you were injured "enough".

Fuck this. Fuck Napoli and the G-d Squad. Jesus wasn't around when most of us were raped - forcibly, or silently threatened with destroying our name, family, academic careers. So why should their Jesus decide how much are vaginas should be torn? How fat our lips should be?

How many scars we'll walk with.

Rape the only crime where the victim carries the burden of the shame, guilt, doubt.

No one ever asks what the driver was wearing when carjacked! No one ever whispers about a pedestrian being hit by a drunk driver - oh well she was jaywalking and it was only a matter of time that she'd be road gummi worms.

Is this how America views women?

So Rapists... you have supporters in Napoli, take it easy while you're raping your next "victim" - make sure you don't beat her up ... to much. Make sure the knife is real dull. Make sure she's a mother of three kids who is an atheist, I'm sure the Red will see her as a willing sex "partner".

Make sure to give you victims rupies or someother drug - so that the Bible Belt can declare you a druggie and therefore you DESERVED to be raped.

Save ourselves for men?? Some of us, some of us survivors - feel that we wanted to share our love, our passion, our strength and yes damnit - our healing with others. YOU may be afraid of sex. Ashamed of sex. You may SUCK at pleasing yourself and your partner... but some of us, regardless of what happened to us in life- see sex as a glorious way to share with another.  Solemn, joyous acts of passion, understanding - and FREEDOM.

I'm sorry these "men" have such fucked up views of sex and women and the world. But their views are worse, actually, that the blows of a rapist. With their views - they make ALL of us potential targets and victims.  

My rapist only attacked me once. But Napoli insists on getting in on the "action".

May he reap what he wants for others. And may it be a woman who stands in judgements of his "wounds".

When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace. - Jimi Hendrix